Anonymous asked: on a scale from 1 to 10, how obsessed are you with cats?
Here’s how: if you have a crush on a friend, as awkward as it may feel and as difficult as it is, you just need to sit them down and tell them, ‘Listen, I have feelings for you that aren’t strictly friendly. I don’t know how you feel about me, I need to get this out in the open. If you aren’t interested in me in that way, I need to know now and some things in our relationship need to change.’
And then you need to be okay with whatever that answer is.